Social Smile (soh-shuh
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A social smile is reciprocal, meaning your baby smiles in response to someone else's smile. It's a sign that several different parts of the brain are maturing. It says he's able to see short distances, make sense of an object, and produce his own smile in return. A social smile also boosts bonding, since it's one of the first forms of communication between parent and child.
And this girl's smile brightens the room, especially after a long and exhausting day.
This smile is also a constant reminder that our little "bump on a log" is truly a little human with likes and dislikes, an emerging personality.
For example, here's what we've learned about her so far:
She hates to have her face cleaned but adores getting her bum cleaned. In fact, she so enjoys the diaper change that sometimes I change her diaper- even if it's not dirty- just to maker her smile.
She prefers the "babbling brook" setting on her noise machine over all the other options (rain, ocean waves and birds chirping).
She likes to nuzzle her face into the crook of my arm and get all hot and cozy in there. And when I check to see that she's still breathing she protests with an unhappy grunt and then goes back to her hiding place.
Her favorite place in the house is on the bathroom counter. She lays there and watches me get ready in the morning cooing at the mirror and basking in the warmth of the heat vent. When I move her she sticks out her lower lip -as if I've totally hurt her feelings- and threatens to cry.
She flirts with our bed comforter. I know- weird, right? But it's got this pattern on it that catches her eye and makes her so delighted that she makes the sweetest noises as she stares at it- particularly at 5am.
The early baby phase is tough, especially when you have a vibrant, engaging, opinionated and adorable two year old for competition. You feed the baby and change them and burp them and bounce them and get very little in return, except for some spit up on your shoulder and a sore back. But we're beginning to see Alice Juel's little personality emerge and it's so very exciting, making the daily grind totally worth it.